For a few years, I always
made reasons why things don't go my way and look for where to put the faults,
but I have released we are only what we make our-self be, and it has helped me
a lot. I may not be where I want to be or achieved all I ever thought to have,
but being alive and being able to stand up to the things I want is the Key.
Therefore these three things has been my motto and it keeps me going.
1.
“I am worth it.”
There will be waves of
sorrow in your life, and you will feel as if you were the sand that the tide
carries away, you will feel as if it carries away your worth it will feel like
you are the left over rubble of a building that had been burned down, and you
will feel less, but please learn to say these words say them in the mirror when
you have just woken up, say them when your lover turns their back on you, say
them when you are opening up the refrigerator sing them, yell them, whisper
them, and please, believe them. I may be exaggerating it but it does help trust
me. You are more than sand that can just be washed away, and you are more than
just a few pieces of broken cement, please, believe you are worth it.
2.
“I love you”
And don’t just say it as
an empty phrase, say it with feeling, say it to every person who comes to mind
when you think of those three little words. I know it’s scary, I know it’s
difficult, but open yourself up and shout it. Don’t mumble, don’t say it under
your breath, when you love someone, whether platonically or romantically, it
deserves to be shouted from every rooftop. But always remember to say it to those
that are worth it and appreciate you around them.
3.
“Goodbye”
There will be some people
in your life that come in and just wreck everything, they mess up your plans,
they hurt you, and make you feel less than what you are, so please learn how to
say goodbye to them. But I also want you to learn how to say goodbye to even
the people you want to stay, not everyone stays, and saying goodbye is like
setting someone free, and it won’t always come easy, and it won’t always come
without heartbreak, but not everyone stays, and it will do you a world of good
to learn how to tell them goodbye.
So far it has helped me to
appreciate myself and people around me and I hope it does the same for you.
What keeps you going please share, you might be helping someone in need. xx
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