When is the right time to apologise to someone you have offended? Lots of times we never say sorry to those we hurt their feelings either through our words, actions and moods. we have a lot of pride in us and would rather let go of the friendship, moments we shared with the person or just carry on like nothing went wrong. Most times even though the person you have offended decides to forgive you, act like you didn't offend them and just carry on being your friend or partner, somewhere in their hearts they still expect you to bring up the topic and say you are sorry even if it's taken you days, weeks, months or years to realize and admit it that you are sorry. They forgive and forget it because they know somewhere in your heart you are truly sorry for your wrongs.
Again some people take the word "Sorry" for granted and use it at every slight opportunity they get even though they are not sorry because they end up doing the things they said sorry about and sometimes even worse than the previous one, saying sorry should mean 'oh I'm sorry I said this about you, or sorry I treated you badly even though you treated me with love and respect' and never go back into doing those things to hurt them again. Trust me some people do not deserve the sorry you give them, because they can push you till you are forced to hurt their feelings and then they expect you to come apologise to them when they should also be saying sorry, but then again if you want to be with a good soul, you should learn to say sorry and forgive people even before they say sorry to you, because that way your heart is free of any grudge against the person.
Finally, people who have offended each other but wait for the other person to come say sorry first, 'that's the shit I don't like.. lol. I still do not understand how that works, in cases like this I don't think you should wait for the other person to come say sorry first because you don't want to look too desperate to start talking to them again or without them you life wont move on. No! never see it that way, just do what your heart says. I'ts just a sign of maturity which does not determine by your age or the class you belong to.
Say sorry to someone today and be free of any grudge in your hearts, Have a lovely evening and thanks for stopping by :)